Empaths are individuals who possess a heightened ability to sense and understand the emotions of others. They are able to intuitively pick up on the feelings of those around them and often feel a deep sense of compassion and empathy towards others. Research has shown that empaths have a unique neural structure that allows them to process emotions in a different way than non-empaths. A study published in the journal Social Cognitive and Affective Neuroscience in 2011 found that the brains of empaths have an increased gray matter density in the anterior cingulate cortex, which is responsible for emotional regulation and empathy. Empaths also tend to have high levels of emotional intelligence, which is the ability to recognize and understand emotions in oneself and others. They are often able to accurately identify and respond to the emotions of others, making them valuable in fields such as counseling and therapy. However, being an empath can also come with its own set of challenges. The ability to deeply feel the emotions of others can make empaths more susceptible to stress and burnout. They may also struggle with setting boundaries and protecting their own emotional well-being. Empath almost always say they can't turn it off. They feel what others near them are feeling. They share in the emotional experience of the other person. An empath is not the same of psychic, medium, telepath, sensitive, mentalist, clairvoyant, who may have the ability to know your thoughts. Empaths for the most part just feel what others feel, the emotion.
One way for empaths to take care of themselves is by setting healthy boundaries and learning how to say “no” when they need to. It is important for empaths to take time for themselves to recharge and to practice self-care.
Another way for empaths to cope is by learning how to ground themselves. Grounding techniques are simple exercises that help to anchor you in the present moment and release any negative energy you may have picked up from others. Examples of grounding techniques include deep breathing exercises, meditation, and going for a walk in nature.
Empaths may also benefit from therapy or counseling to help them understand and manage their abilities. A therapist can help empaths learn how to set boundaries and take care of themselves emotionally. Therapist can help empaths understand that others do not feel as deeply, if you will, as they do. Assuming someone is hurting like they might hurt is an assumption. This can be good and bad and is definitely something to process with a therapist. Some empaths are reluctant to engage with others assuming what they "might" or "might not" say or do will cause so. much pain, they simply retreat from the social interaction. What they don't realize is others don't feel with the same depth. Some have said in passing " I have one feeling and your not going to hurt it." The truth in this and communication is, " I don't feel as deeply as you do, don't be afraid to express what you want to."
In conclusion, empaths are individuals who possess a heightened ability to sense and understand the emotions of others. They tend to have a unique neural structure that allows them to process emotions in a different way than non-empaths and often have high levels of emotional intelligence. Being an empath can come with its own set of challenges, but empaths can take care of themselves by setting healthy boundaries, practicing self-care, grounding themselves and seeking therapy or counseling.
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Lisa Wilmon LPC-S
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